For the 50+ Traveler

Cape May is one of those idyllic southern New Jersey shore cities with a historical past. In the Victorian Era, it was a retreat for Philadelphia society to escape the sweltering city heat. By 1850, Cape May earned the title of “America’s First Seaside Resort Town" for its healing saltwater and cooling sea breezes. Cape May has also welcomed distinguished and influential people who spent time at the famous and elegant Congress Hall Hotel, including President Benjamin Harrison. Harrison conducted business out of his "Summer White House,” and musical icons like John Philip Sousa conducted his music on the lawn.

In 1878, a devastating fire destroyed 40 acres of structures and the stately Congress Hall. Famous architects were commissioned to rebuild the Victorian homes and hotels better and grander than before. What these great builders left behind; visitors get to enjoy today.

The Cape May Historic District has 600 free-standing buildings that feature Late Victorian, Eclectic, Queen Anne, Italianate, Gothic Revival, Colonial, and French Second Empire architectural styles. The entire town is a National Historic Landmark with revitalized and renovated properties and resorts that bring the Gilded Age into the modern age. Starting after Thanksgiving, the city becomes a wonderland, recognized as the best Christmas town in New Jersey by Reader’s Digest. The theme this year is An Olde Fashioned Cape May Christmas Celebration. Various events are planned, including decking those stunning Victorians with boughs and lights. The gas lamps are lit, the shops are open for one-of-a-kind gifts, the trolley is running around town, and Santa appears, adding to the holiday magic. It is a beautiful time to visit, even if it's too cold to don a swimming suit.

Cape May is located at the southern tip of the Cape May Peninsula, where the Delaware Bay meets the Atlantic Ocean. Many drive to Cape May by taking the Garden State Parkway all the way to the end. If you are coming from the south, you could take the Cape May-Lewes Ferry over the Delaware Bay to North Cape May. The ferry takes about 80 minutes, and if you prefer not to drive on to the ferry, a shuttle can take you from the dock into town. Here are 10 fun things to do (in no particular order) that will brighten your holiday and get you in a festive spirit.

Christmas lights in downtown Cape May, New Jersey.

1. Delight In The Light

Both the residents and the businesses participate in Light Up Cape May, a contest to win prizes and bragging rights in six different categories, including Best Residence, Best Business, Best Window, and Best Olde Fashioned Theme.

The Mainstay Inn in Cape May, decorated for Christmas.

USA Today has added a nomination for Cape May to its 10 Best Readers’ Choice for Best Holiday Lights Display. While this city is gorgeous any time of the year, it is incredibly stunning, all decorated for the holidays.

Pro Tip: The Cape May MAC offers trolley tours if you would prefer to ride around to see the light displays.

The Cape May Walking Tour and Holiday Hunt.

2. A Winning Scavenger Hunt

If you like a good walking tour of a city, combine it with a scavenger hunt and a chance to win a prize. On the Cape May Walking Tour and Holiday Hunt, it is simple. First, find all 12 holiday symbols hidden around Cape May. Then, snap and post a photo of your small group on social media using #CapeMay12Days, and you could win a prize. This is an excellent activity if you have young teens in your group.

Pro Tip: The link will allow you to plan your walking tour ahead of time, so you know where to stop and what is nearby for refreshments and breaks.

A trolley tour of Cape May via the Cape May MAC.

3. Hop On A Trolley

The Cape May MAC (Museum and Arts and Culture) is a non-profit organization that promotes the greater Cape May area's cultural enrichment. The organization offers three different holiday tours on their open-air trolleys that start either at the Emlen Physick Estate or the booth at the Washington Street Mall. Tour choices include a Holiday Lights Trolley Ride, Santa's Trolley Ride (an activity with young children 3-12), or A Ghosts of Christmas Past Tour. This is a terrific way to see the city and enjoy its historical past.

Pro Tip: The trolleys are open-air so bring a blanket as it gets cold. If you forget one, the Cape May MAC has blankets for sale.

Shops decorated for Christmas in Cape May, New Jersey.

4. Shop Small

If you are looking for unique gifts, there are lovely shops along the pedestrian mall known as Washington Street and throughout the town. Many owners are participating in the Holiday Wish List Contest. If you visit a store (restaurants too) and fill out a form, you could enter a weekly prize drawing. There is also a grand prize drawing for a weekend getaway to Cape May. Another fun stop is the West End Garage in the heart of historic downtown Cape May across from Wilbraham Park. The West End Garage, launched by Cape Resorts in 2009, features antique furniture, vintage items, jewelry, accessories, artwork, and more. You will browse over 50 stores under one roof with vendors from New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and New York.

Pro Tip: Do not miss the Beach Plum Bakery and Cafe right next door to the Garage. They serve La Colombe coffee drinks (the first in southern New Jersey) and pastries. Coffee paired with a hand pie will give you the strength you need to shop until you drop.

Christmas decorations at Congress Hall in Cape May, New Jersey.

5. Stay In A Historic Victorian Hotel

Congress Hall retains all the splendor of the past with updated and tastefully decorated rooms and suites. It is beautifully decked out for Christmas with a 30-foot tree, lights, greenery, and festive decor. The reimagined Winter Wonderland experiences make this a perfect getaway hotel as the property offers a host of activities in keeping with the season. On-site is a fantastic restaurant, an elegant bar, and a relaxing spa. There are various fine and casual dining spots affiliated with the hotel in town; ask the concierge for suggestions and reservations. Hotel guests may participate in special events such as Santa’s Craft Workshops and Congress Hall’s own Holiday Train Rides. Conveniently located, Congress Hall is steps away from the pedestrian mall along Washington Street for shopping and additional restaurants.

Pro Tip: You must make reservations to dine at the restaurants in Cape May and Congress Hall. You don’t have to be a guest to eat at the hotel, but reservations are required. Reservations for breakfast with Santa are also necessary.

Winter Igloos at Congress Hall in Cape May, New Jersey.

6. Spend An Evening In An Igloo

As a part of the Winter Wonderland experiences, there are 12 private Winter Igloos set up for light dining and cocktails for parties of eight or less on the grounds of Congress Hall. It is a special way to celebrate the holidays with family or friends. You can reserve an igloo even if you are not a guest at the hotel for an hour and a half per party. Refer to the website for fees and details.

Pro Tip: This is a unique experience that has never been offered before at Congress Hall. If you have a small group (eight or fewer) and want a private, intimate evening, this is a lovely opportunity to try a limited offering. Reservations are required.

The Emlen Physick Estate, a Victorian home in Cape May.

7. Tour A Victorian Home

The Emlen Physick Estate was built in 1879 by the Physick family. It was occupied by Emlen Physick, Jr., his mother, and his aunt. It is preserved and maintained by Cape May MAC and is a perfect representation of Cape May’s Victorian past. The museum offers four options for holiday tours: A Dr. Physick Christmas Tour, A Dickens of A Murder Tour (theater performance), An Evening Yuletide House Tour, And A Physick Family Christmas House Tour.

The Old Fashioned Christmas exhibit at the Emlen Physick Estate.

The home is decorated in the Victorian style, and ticket prices include a tour of the carriage house where the "Old Fashioned Christmas" exhibit is displayed.

Pro Tip: The first floor is wheelchair accessible, and parking at the estate is free.

Beer from the Cape May Brewing Company in New Jersey.

8. Sip A Beer At A Brewery

In 2011 Cape May Brewing Company was born and started a craft beer revolution in South Jersey. Making their home at the Cape May Airport, the brewing company crafts flavorful ales and lagers. The small brewing business has grown and now has a taproom, a brewery tour, and a retail outfit. The Beer Garden and limited indoor seating are open daily, and the Brewtanical Garden is open on Fridays through the weekends. Seating is on a first-come, first-serve basis and is limited.

Pro Tip: This is an excellent stop for craft beer. If you prefer not to taste the beer on the premises, you can order packaged goods from the curbside pick-up website.

9. Shop And Sip At A Winery

Willow Creek Winery is a premium wine producer in Cape May, the only one on Cape Island. The area's specific climate allows them to craft unique wines from the thousands of vines planted on their 50-acre property. On the weekends, they offer events like yoga, fire pits, and a Socially Distanced Sip and Shop outdoors with different vendors like authors, jewelers, bakers, and makers.

Pro Tip: Participation will drive donations to Shriners Hospitals. If you bring an unwrapped toy, canned goods, or pet toy, your contributions will help those in need -- an opportunity to do good while having a good time.

A house in Historic Cold Springs Village during Christmas.

10. Take A Winter Walk Through The Past

Historic Cold Spring Village has a special guided walking tour on a portion of the property on a crisp winter weekend day. You will learn about the history of the buildings and the life of the people who lived there. The Country Store is open to purchase souvenirs. After the tour, you are treated to a complimentary mini-flight tasting at Cold Spring Brewery, New Jersey’s first non-profit brewery.

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